Emotional intelligence social psychology test: Do you get along well with your friends?

Not everyone becomes good friends immediately upon meeting each other. It all depends on the information obtained from the conversation with the other party to determine whether you can communicate well with the other party. But some people make others feel disgusted because of their quick words. Are you sitting in front of your computer wondering if you get along well with your friends? Why not try a little test together?

If today is your birthday, you would enthusiastically invite some classmates and colleagues to attend the birthday party you have carefully prepared. New and old friends gathered together, and one of them actually appeared in "beggar's clothes", making you feel uncomfortable all over. How would you handle this matter?

A. Jokingly said: "Not bad! This outfit suits you very well."

B. Don't say a word, just smile and let it go

C. Remind him indirectly and express your feelings

D. Say to him directly: "Don't you think you have ruined today's event?"

E. Put a slogan on his back to teach him a lesson

A. You always like to act mysterious, but everyone knows that you are mocking him, but it is just tacit understanding. Fortunately, you are good at being pleasant and have a good relationship with others. Your danger lies in the malicious sarcasm that comes out when you speak, which can easily hurt others.

B. You are always reserved and unwilling to express your opinions on others, which makes people feel cold. Poor interpersonal relationships are your hidden worry because you are inherently introverted, too conservative in your actions and unable to provide special help to others. But you are essentially kind.

C. You are unable to communicate with your relatives and friends in a casual manner. Although your interpersonal relationships are good, they are not necessarily real. Even the closest friends always give people a feeling that the relationship is deliberately managed, not natural enough, and not real enough. At first glance, it may seem like you treat your friends sincerely, but over time, people will begin to feel alienated.

D. You are very straightforward and never drag your feet in doing things. You are not like some chameleons who dare not speak out and are insincere. You have the spirit of "there is no such thing as a special breed of generals and ministers, and men should be self-reliant." However, the most obvious shortcoming of this kind of personality is that it does not leave a way out for oneself or others, and is easy to offend people.

E. Your way is always special and you can easily get along with people around you. The word “打” has two meanings: the first is to mean enthusiastically, and the second is to really “fight”. In any case, your open personality is the source of this society's dynamics and is worth promoting. However, you should pay attention to the occasion and the degree, and the method should not be too extreme.

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