How to choose an auspicious date for marriage?

It is best to avoid choosing auspicious days in the third, seventh and ninth months of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with the "Qingming Festival", "Yulan Festival" and "Chonggong Festival" respectively, which are all traditional "Ghost Festivals" and are not suitable for holding weddings. The month of Mid-Autumn Festival when the moon is full, that is, the eighth month of the lunar calendar is the most suitable month for weddings.

According to legend, Yue Lao refused to tie the red thread for Sanniang, preventing her from getting married. Out of revenge, Sanniang likes to go against Yue Lao and specifically ruin the happy events of newlyweds. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the Sanniang evil days of each month, i.e. the 3rd, 7th, 13th, 18th, 22nd and 27th.

The principle for choosing a date for marriage is to base it on the bride's date of birth, while taking the birth dates of the groom and others into consideration. As the saying goes, "A boy's date is determined by the year of his birth, and a girl's date of marriage is determined by the year of her marriage." Therefore, if this principle is reversed or violated, it will lead to problems in the marriage and even divorce. Otherwise, it will be very auspicious.

It is commonly known as the cut-off marriage, also known as the six evils of piercing the heart, so it should be avoided.

White horses are always afraid of green cows, sheep and rats can only rest for a day, snakes are cut by tigers.

A pig will have no way out when it meets a monkey, a dragon will fly into the clouds when it meets a rabbit, and a golden rooster will shed tears when it meets a dog.

Not suitable for getting married. If a man marries in the year of Zi, he should avoid being born in the year of Snake.

The year of Zi is forbidden to have the snake sign, the year of Chou is forbidden to have the horse sign, the year of Yin is forbidden to have the sheep sign, and the year of Mao is forbidden to have the dog sign.

The year of Chen is forbidden to have the zodiac sign of a chicken, the year of Si is forbidden to have the zodiac sign of a dog, the year of Wu is forbidden to have the zodiac sign of a pig, and the year of Wei is forbidden to have the zodiac sign of a rat.

The ox sign is forbidden in the year of Shen, the dragon sign is forbidden in the year of You, the rabbit sign is forbidden in the year of Xu, and the dragon sign is forbidden in the year of Hai.

It is not suitable to leave the boudoir. If a woman is born in the year of Zi, she should avoid marrying in the year of Rabbit.

The year of Zi should not be associated with the rabbit, the year of Chou should not be associated with the tiger, the year of Yin should not be associated with the ox, and the year of Mao should not be associated with the rat.

The year of Chen should not be associated with the pig, the year of Si should not be associated with the dog, the year of Wu should not be associated with the chicken, and the year of Wei should not be associated with the monkey.

The year of Shen should avoid the sheep, the year of You should avoid the horse, the year of Xu should avoid the snake, and the year of Hai should avoid the dragon.