The zodiac sign that is soft-hearted but not hard-hearted. The zodiac sign that will only listen to you if you are more ruthless than him.

In a relationship, if someone says you are more ruthless than him, it does not mean that you are cruel or hit others, but that you are tougher and more aggressive than him in attitude. Only then will he listen to you, especially if he is a lover who is hard-hearted and does not respond to soft words. But you can't just rely on ruthlessness, you also need to be methodical, otherwise it will backfire and hurt the feelings of each other. Now let’s take a look at which of the twelve zodiac signs will only obey you if you are more ruthless than them.

Scorpio

Scorpio is a typical representative of those who are hard-hearted and do not respond to soft words. They are not very impressed by other people's pleasant expressions and gentle words, especially when their lovers ask them to do something. They may not take your words to heart, and sometimes they just ignore what you say. But when you take a tough stance, they will look at you differently, stop being perfunctory with you, and start to listen to you.

In fact, Scorpio treats lovers very well. Once they fall in love with you, they will regard you as a very important person in their life. If they disobey you or even offend you, and you have tried everything, including a tough attitude, but still can't make them surrender, then pretend to be cruel and leave them and no longer love them. Scorpio's attitude will definitely change drastically, and they will listen to you obediently because they are afraid that you will leave. Therefore, you have to be more ruthless than them, then Scorpio will obey you.

Gemini

Geminis like a free and easy life. They find it fun to play and fight with their lovers occasionally, which can promote communication between them without hurting their feelings. After they get along with you, you will find that they are active around you like live treasures, and they play with you very unrestrainedly and without any sense of propriety. When you are angry, they will add fuel to the fire with a playful smile, and then watch you get even angrier.

But sometimes Geminis play too inappropriately and make you very angry, and no matter what you say, they won't change. You might scare them if you act aggressively, for example by throwing something that doesn't break but makes a loud noise, like a plastic fruit plate. Only then do they realize that you are really angry and dare not disobey you. It can be seen that for the Gemini who loves to joke, he will only listen to you if you are more ruthless than him.

Virgo

Virgos have a strong desire to control in relationships and always make various rules for their partners, such as the Three Rules of Love. They will look unhappy if their partners don't do what they say. If the other party can give reasons to refute them, Virgos are often helpless. It can be seen that they bully the good and fear the evil, especially when they meet a soft-hearted lover. Everything in life will be decided by them and they will not listen to a word the other party says.

In other words, if you are not strong enough, Virgos will take advantage of you when you are in love with them. In order to make them listen to you, or to "take the initiative", you must act tougher than them. It is best to be tougher when they become tough. Only then will Virgos listen to you and stop yelling at you. But Virgos like to be reasonable, so you have to convince them with your toughness and ruthlessness, otherwise they won't listen to you.