Questions to test emotional intelligence: How much emotional intelligence do you have left after getting married?

Many people like to use emotional intelligence tests to test their ability to attract the opposite sex, but they ignore the harsh fact that emotional intelligence will degenerate. Many married women wonder why there is such a big difference between the man they were dating and the man they are married to. However, have you ever thought that your husband’s declining enthusiasm may be related to your own decline in emotional intelligence? So, do you know that your emotional intelligence will deteriorate after marriage?

Test Start

Assuming you and he have been married for many years, how do you think it would be the most romantic and meaningful way to celebrate your wedding anniversary with him?

A. Cook his favorite meal and then take a walk and talk.

B. The two of them carried out the travel that they had planned long ago.

C. Go to a familiar restaurant and recreate the scene when you were in love.

D. Pretend to forget and then give him a surprise

Test Results

A - Rapid decline

You are a very pragmatic person. After getting married, you will follow the principle of "simplicity is truth". You think the most romantic thing is to grow old together. This will make your marriage long-lasting, but it will also make your marriage dull and boring, because while you have changed from the sensitive and passionate girl when you were in love to the little woman who is good at living now, your emotional intelligence has also declined rapidly.

B - Slow decline

When you are in love, you may create little romances and surprises for each other, but after marriage, you are too familiar with each other and have reached the point of "being in perfect harmony with each other". This will make your life full of tacit understanding, but also make your married life lack passion. Because each other's emotional intelligence has been slowly declining in the arranged plan.

C - will not diminish

Deep down, you still hope that marriage can be a continuation of love. Even if you cannot be as inseparable as you were in love every day, you still hope to re-experience the sweetness of that time on special days. So you can grow into a wife who is good at living, and become a little girl with high emotional intelligence for the romance in your heart. After marriage, your emotional intelligence will remain intact.

D——Strange Increase

When you are in love, you may not be good at speaking and will not overly show your emotional intelligence in front of your lover. But you are the kind of person who will be devoted to someone once you fall in love, so you will spend more time managing a marriage, and therefore your emotional intelligence will increase miraculously along with your need for marital happiness.