Valentine's Day test to know the biggest weakness in your relationship, celebrate Valentine's Day again

Everyone has weak spots in relationships. It may be that after actually getting along with each other, you discover that there is a gap between love and what you imagined; it may be that you over-compromise in love and lose yourself; it may also be that you have to shoulder too many responsibilities and have no energy or time for romance... Where are you most vulnerable in your relationship? How to solve it?

Test Start

One day your significant other suddenly gives you a big surprise and gives you a very valuable bag. What will you think?

1. Thank you dear! After waiting for several years, this day has finally come!

2. No thanks, I deserve it! For many years, a bag has been trying to settle me

3. Too much courtesy is likely to be a deception. Are you doing something wrong? It's definitely not simple

4. Could you please give me some more awesome gifts? I am no longer at the age of vanity! What is the package for? Can it be eaten? It’s more practical to build a house!

Answer analysis

Answers and solution suggestions

Choice 1: Lose yourself and love to the point of compromise

You lose your own ideas, which causes the other party to take advantage of you. Taking care of others is your most charming side, but it has become the source of your unhappiness, and you have become dependent and unprincipled. You know that this won't work, but you're also afraid that once you stop giving, he'll have no reason to stay... In your mythological personality, you have the prototype of Demeter, the goddess of the harvest, who takes the path of sacrificing yourself, giving to the end without asking for anything in return, and when there's really no reward, it hurts your heart.

Solution: Tell the truth and regain your dignity.

When the mythical time reaches Fedun, the son of the sun, it means that you must change everything. Only change now can help you save your love. If you indulge the other party and he/she becomes too demanding, the relationship will get worse and worse. Only by telling the truth can you succeed. Of course, you don’t have to say things in a harsh or forceful way. You can be gentler. In fact, communication does not mean speaking harshly to each other.

Sometimes, if the other party is very repulsive to you during communication, it means that he is used to being willful and requires you to be tolerant. You must regain your own dignity, make yourself successful, and not be emotionally dependent on the other person. Because if you are afraid, the other party will suppress you in the same way, which is caused by your indulgence in the past. To make your love life good, you must change, be brave to communicate, and have goals in your career. You cannot be afraid, so that you can have a good relationship and have dignity.

Option 2: Too busy to be romantic

If you can be romantic, who would want to deal with the daily necessities of life? (But in fact, sometimes you are really too lazy to be romantic, because there are too many other things you want to do, so where is the time for love?) You think that no matter whether you are a good family man or you have a career, you have to play many roles for the sake of your future and your family. You can only try your best to play each role well, but you start to get confused. You can only do things well and finish them, but you are not in the mood to create an atmosphere.

Sometimes when you focus on what you want to do, you forget about the other person. In fact, your fatal flaw is not the lack of romance, but the lack of consideration for maintaining the world of two people. You are very dedicated to your career, but when you are a lover or partner, although you work hard and do your job well, the other party does not feel loved, but only feels peaceful on the surface but dreams different dreams.

Solution: Creating opportunities does not have to be contrived

There are many ways to act coquettishly. If you can't speak in a coquettish voice, then you can be a little naughty and ask the other person to do something harmless for you. Find opportunities to give your partner some sweet treats, this is also a way to create romance. Deliberately create opportunities for the two of you to spend time together. Since you are a bit of a perfectionist and have the ability to be a control freak, arrange a series of scripts so that both of you can have fun.

Option 3: Suppress the pain and forget about being loved

If you have ever been in love, it's like you have fallen from heaven to hell. You used to imagine that love would mean happy ever after, but now you find that there are money, family, debt, betrayal, third parties, and no intersection, and you feel that real life is frustrating. You are pulled back to reality from fantasy. It turns out that love has too much to bear, which makes you afraid and lose your ideals in love. But have you ever thought that your worries come from such superficial problems? Because we have experienced too much hardship and think too highly of love, we realize that love actually needs to be managed with care.

Solution: Take the time to master the problem

The period of madness and fantasy in love has passed. I didn’t want to grow up before, but in fact, there is a different kind of romance after growing up. In fact, you can still have romantic ideas, but it's time to start being more mature. Building dreams together is the most fashionable romance now. Dependence on each other will make you anxious and worried, and small happiness will not satisfy you. You have the energy of Jupiter and Pisces. Jupiter represents the use of resources and your own growth; the energy of Jupiter and Pisces represents the need to change your mind's perspective.

If two people want to have a better relationship, they must overcome economic issues and many practical aspects, and find that they can take care of and take on more things. You will regain your confidence in love, and from small love, you will change to mutual support, revolutionary feelings, and deep love for each other, and you will not be afraid of others destroying your relationship.

Option 4: shirk responsibility and play the hand-over card

You wait foolishly for the other person to give, expect the other person to solve problems when they arise, and just sit there waiting. In terms of love, you are like a princess or a prince, waiting for others to serve you. Sometimes you act dumb and stupid, but in fact you know very well that this will leave the other person with no choice but to take care of you, so you know how to be the powerful party in the relationship. But if you always play the hand-asking card, the fatal blow to you is that one day the other party decides not to take responsibility for you, and you may be caught off guard and not know what to do. Usually, people who are willing to take care of you do so because they love you. You should know how to be grateful and give back, and do what you can within your ability, and you will make progress.

Solution: Double the feedback to create a win-win situation

In the Mythological Years, you walk towards Kronos, the Titan leader who takes responsibility, which means you have to learn to give more! The other person is nice to you because he loves you. Can you feel the happiness of being loved? You can feel it, and you also have to know how to give back, okay? There is a reason for this, so that love will not get tired, because if the other party is always giving, he will get tired and complain. You must have the courage to face your responsibilities and increase your financial capabilities. If you love him, don't put too much pressure on him. It would be great if you could share the burden together!

Since you know that you are greedy, face it and gain it through your own strength. You can even spend more time and energy to take care of the other person. Love will become more stable because you are willing to work hard. When you start giving back, you won’t always be picky and demand too much from others, which will result in you despising others even though they have good intentions.