How does a Capricorn fall in love with someone?

Capricorns, who are passionate about their careers and hardworking, are born to do great things. The strong and continuous driving force that supports them may come from their long-term self-confrontation - Capricorns are born with an inferiority complex, and have a gene in their bones that wants to "please" others. They have a strong desire to be recognized by everyone, even if they do not agree with the "recognition" - they know that it is not what they like, but in the eyes of others, it is good, it is right, and they want to do that as much as possible.

This gene allows them to enjoy the sense of accomplishment that comes from recognition, but it also becomes a shadow that will linger in their lives, because they want to be themselves so much, but they just can't let go of the feeling of being "recognized."

Another reason for Capricorn's self-suppression comes from their original family. Capricorns will definitely have a role model elder as a model in the process of growing up, who will influence them subtly. For example, if the father in the family is not as capable as the mother, Capricorns will be easily influenced by the mother's ability in their bones. This influence causes them to be controlled and restrained by the mother (or the status in the family is just the opposite). There is always a serious atmosphere in the home; even if they live in a very lively family atmosphere, they may be clearly told a lot of behavioral norms, such as: which ones must be completed and which ones cannot be touched - these are the "rules" and "norms" that Capricorns have formed since childhood, so Capricorns will always show a state of "restraint", even if they are wild horses at heart, these rules will restrict them.

The same is true in love. They will want to restrain their love and affection for you. They are afraid of going too far and trying too hard and hurting or losing the other person. Ultimately, Capricorn does not know how to express love. You will find that in a Capricorn's love experience, secret crush is the norm, and this secret crush may accompany them for a very long time.

Capricorns are introverted and rarely show their emotions . If you are very familiar with Capricorns but they still make you feel cold, please don't misunderstand, they just don't know how to express their care for you. In the heart of Capricorn, caring and not caring may appear the same on the outside, but they know in their hearts that you are different from those people. Of course, this is also where Capricorns can easily suffer, because it is difficult to distinguish their external state, so they are easily misunderstood.

In Capricorn's emotional rules, "Cold War" may be one of their main ways to solve love problems, because they don't know how to communicate, and they are afraid that communication will backfire. Instead of this, it is better to be cold. They will naively think that maybe after a while, the matter will be over and everyone can return to the previous state, but the other half will not think so, because it will bring more resentment and contradictions.

In fact, what they want is very simple, that is, to live a down-to-earth life without so many unexpected things, because they don’t know how to deal with them.

But this "simple and down-to-earth" life is based on many conditions. Capricorns seldom get carried away by momentary passion. They need to think carefully before they are willing to associate with you. In addition to love, all objective conditions must meet their basic expectations. Usually, they are unwilling to even start a relationship that has no future. For example, I know a girl who confessed her love to a Capricorn boy when she graduated from college. The Capricorn man said, I also have a good impression of you, but we don’t have a very deep emotional foundation now. If you want to go back to my home with me to find a job, it will be too much of a sacrifice, so I dare not agree. Starting a long-distance relationship is not conducive to the development of the relationship, so forget it. In general, if you can impress a Capricorn, you can be considered a successful person. If he agrees to be with you, the relationship is 70% successful.