Why can't we often talk about the deceased? Will people still remember their children after they die?

After a loved one dies, the living people will often talk about the deceased due to excessive longing for the loved one, and miss every little thing about the loved one when he was alive. This state may even last for a long time. Why can’t we often talk about the deceased?

Why can't we often talk about the dead?

We should not often think about the deceased because according to folk belief, constantly thinking about the deceased will shorten one's life span and easily attract ghosts, which will lead to bad consequences. Of course, this is just a folk saying, which is superstitious. It is not a bad thing to miss deceased relatives, but the dead cannot be resurrected, and we still have to look forward to the future. The better we live, the greater comfort to our ancestors.

Do people remember their children after they die?

People will still remember their children after they die;
According to the classics, people can still remember things from their previous lives after they die, and they can remember things from the previous three lives. Because there is a saying in Buddhism that if you don’t eat worldly food for three days, you will climb the Wangxiang Tower for seven days. Within three days after death, a person experiences the bardo body. At this time, it is not a ghost but a soul. It can go anywhere, to heaven, Lingshan or hell, without control. It may also pass through mountains of swords, seas of fire, swords and trees, and be chased by ferocious beasts. These are all pulled by karma. After seven days, after going to the Wangxiang Terrace, you will go to the Senluo Hall for trial, starting from the First Hall, to the Tenth Hall, and then pass the Naihe Bridge to see the Sansheng Stone. See things about the previous three lives and parents. Then after drinking Meng Po soup, you cross the Naihe Bridge and reincarnate. I don’t remember anything after that. However, according to Buddhist scriptures, the opportunity to reincarnate is rare. If a ghost wants to wait for the people in the world to see it for the last time, it can refuse to drink Meng Po soup. But this way you won’t be able to reincarnate. Waiting by the Naihe Bridge. It takes three thousand years to be reborn. If you want to remember your past life, you must be able to return to this time through your willpower. Then you can only chant the Buddha’s name to be reborn in the Western Paradise. Only by becoming a Buddha can one go to any country at will.