How to write a condolence letter for the deceased elderly?

In traditional funeral rituals and customs, when an elder dies, there are many taboos that the younger generations are not allowed to do. What are the taboos for a daughter-in-law when an elderly person passes away? How to write a eulogy for an elderly person who passes away?

Taboos for the daughter-in-law when the elderly pass away

Taboo 1.
During the mourning period, the daughter-in-law must pay attention to her dress and appearance. She should not wear flashy clothes. It is best to choose plainer clothes, such as blue, black or other dark-colored clothes.
Taboo 2:
In the first three years after an elderly person's death, the house is not allowed to post couplets or set off firecrackers or fireworks.
Taboo three:
Within 100 days after the death of an elderly person, it is best not to visit relatives and friends or travel, because it is said that you will bring some of your own sad atmosphere to others, causing them to encounter many bad things.

How to write a eulogy for an old man who passed away

1. Do your best. Leave it to fate. Everything has a beginning and an end, just follow fate.
2. Birth, aging, sickness and death are natural phenomena. Be patient and accept the changes! Take care of yourself.
3. I was shocked to hear that your parents passed away. I am deeply saddened. I hope you will be patient and accept my condolences.
4. The family will live well there. I definitely don't want to see everyone too sad.
5. My relatives may be sad, but others are already singing. What is there to say about death? My body will be buried in the mountains.
6. Be merciful and accept the loss, but those who are still alive should still live well. The dead are gone.
7. The rain sprinkles on the handkerchief, and the wind blows the hat to the side. Flowers burn in the mountain scenery, willows lie in the sound of water.
8. The loved ones have passed away, and the children and grandchildren have not gathered together. The wandering soul sings for thousands of miles, how can I bear the sorrow?
9. The family will live well there. You must not expect to see everyone too sad.