The divorce rate of those born in the 1980s is reflected in four reasons. It is urgent to establish a correct view of marriage.

Nowadays, it is an indisputable fact that the divorce rate among those born in the 1980s continues to rise. The reporter recently learned from interviews with several marriage registration offices in the city that about 25% of divorced people born in the 1980s broke up before even holding the marriage ceremony after obtaining the marriage certificate.

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According to the marriage registration office of the Tianqiao District Civil Affairs Bureau, from the beginning of the year to August 1, there were 942 divorces among the nearly 500,000 people in Tianqiao District, an average of nearly 6 divorces per day. At the same time, the marriage-to-divorce ratio in the first half of the year was 2.7:1. It is not difficult to find out from the age structure of divorced people that most of them are under 35 years old, and most of them are born in the 1980s.

Based on the reasons for failed marriages written by divorced couples, it is not difficult to find that there are four main reasons why the divorce rate among the post-80s generation continues to rise: flash marriage. Many men and women who have reached marriageable age, due to pressure from their surroundings, quickly enter into marriage without knowing each other very well, which creates hidden dangers for the marriage; they emphasize self. Most people born in the 1980s are more self-centered. When conflicts arise, they do not know how to adjust themselves and understand each other, which leads to a decline in marital stability; parental intervention. Many parents interfere and intervene too much in their children's lives, which leads to the escalation of some conflicts; third parties intervene. The lack of family responsibility leads to a lack of trust and communication between young couples, and too many social temptations lead to the intervention of third parties, which also contributes to the breakdown of marriages.

Although the increase in divorce rates to a certain extent reflects social development and the awakening of personal self-awareness, such data really makes people feel complicated. Although it looks like just a set of cold numbers, in fact, each single digit means the breakdown of a family and also means another story of joys and sorrows. So why is the divorce rate continuing to rise? Some people simply attribute it to the fact that as the economy develops, individuals face more shocks and temptations. In fact, this is not entirely true, because marriage problems are actually very complicated. They involve social factors and human emotional factors.