Most men would rather marry a gold-digger than a strong woman

As a man, if I were asked to choose a wife, I would rather marry a gold digger than a woman who is competitive in everything.

Strong women are a name for women who have achieved success in their careers. They are mature, calm, not impulsive, not childish, and good at communicating. Sometimes they are a little aloof and arrogant. I have always had both admiration and contempt for such women. I admire them because they are indeed very capable and, compared to some men, they have indeed won the favor of their bosses at work; but I despise them because, as women, they have all the personality traits that men should have. Such women sometimes make me feel that they are neither male nor female, because, in my heart, women are always gentle, weak, and in need of men's protection.

Men all hope to find a gentle wife, but strong women do not have a gentle side. Even if they do, I think it is just a temporary pretend. Over time, their strong character will torture men to the point of turning them into non-men, and divorce is inevitable in the end. As a man, if I were asked to choose a wife, I would rather marry a gold digger than a woman who is competitive in everything. Why? Because gold-diggers like to dress themselves up in a feminine way all the time. They need men's care and protection. In their eyes, men who give them money are always the first. But it's not like that for strong women. In their hearts, strong women always put themselves first. In their hearts, it is impossible for men to surpass themselves.