I once received a letter from a female graduate student who said she was 24 years old and had never been in a relationship. She described herself as an "ugly duckling" who would be lost in a crowd and would not attract any attention when walking on the street. Seeing that all the beautiful female classmates in the dormitory were already taken, she couldn't help feeling a little disappointed. When she was an undergraduate, she had always liked a boy in her class. The boy had a tall figure, outstanding looks, a cheerful personality, excellent grades, and he played basketball very well. Wherever she went, she was surrounded by many beautiful butterflies, but he never even looked at this "ugly duckling". Her emotional road was barren, so she had to focus on her studies. Unexpectedly, after being admitted to graduate school, she became even more inferior, because even the slightly better boys around her were basically accompanied by beautiful girls, but she was still ignored. Her family has been very worried about this, but she has long been at a loss as to what to do. At the end of the letter, she asked me a question: Do men only like beautiful women? Is a girl like her who has nothing remarkable about her appearance destined to be forgotten by love? I read this letter no less than three times, but I never replied. I didn't know how to answer her question. |
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