The top ten psychological problems faced by the post-80s generation

Currently, those born in the 1980s are basically inferior to society. In this big melting pot of society, many people born in the 1980s have begun to find that they have more or less some psychological problems. The editor has sorted out these psychological problems, see if you have any?

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Psychological problem 1: Frustration in love - breaking up but not understanding heartbreak

As of 2008, the oldest of those born in the 1980s was 28 years old and the youngest was 18 years old. According to psychologist Erikson's theory of eight stages of life, the age of 18-30 is the stage of "practicing love", and the main contradiction that needs to be resolved is the contradiction between "intimacy" and "loneliness". In other words, at this age, we are bound to encounter love, endure its tests and trials, poke our heads out of our own small world, and learn to use love to bind ourselves and others together - being frustrated and making mistakes for love are problems that we are bound to face at this age. “The person I love doesn’t love me”, “Why does love disappear so quickly”, “Is love about hurting each other”, “Love is such a fragile thing”, “I no longer believe in love after a breakup”... These sorrows caused by setbacks, although heartbreaking, also make us adults. We all become adults after we learn to lose. By the time we say "break up" and are no longer afraid of losing love, our love will probably have been mastered.

Safety indicator: People born in the 1980s are used to breaking up. Since they don’t love each other anymore, they just break up. But many people don’t understand that heartbreak also requires learning, dealing with sadness, and summarizing experience. Those who have not experienced setbacks in love don’t understand love. Since everyone has to take on this problem, please be bolder.