The real psychological thoughts behind women's sexual dreams

Among all kinds of dreams, dreams about love are the most difficult to share with others. In fact, there are many unknown real thoughts hidden behind it. Recently, the American magazine "Self-Pleasure" interpreted the 8 most common sexual dreams of women one by one. Let's take a look at them below!

Dream 1: Dreaming of having intimate behavior with superiors and colleagues

Leslie, a 26-year-old single female teacher, usually doesn't communicate much with her colleagues, but she often dreams of her male colleagues taking her horseback riding outdoors. In the dream, the stimulating pleasure on the saddle made her very comfortable and she even moaned. Leslie often felt embarrassed about this.

Dr. Pam Spahr, an expert in interpersonal relationship psychology in London, UK, analyzed this dream and said that dreaming of being intimate with your superiors or colleagues does not mean that you subconsciously want to have a relationship with them. It mostly means that you admire this person's ability and hope that he (she) will give you guidance and help. Horses also often appear in women's sexual dreams. Women who like to masturbate may dream of caressing horses.

Dream 2: Dreaming about sex in public

29-year-old Dina dreamed that she met a strange man at the airport. The man chatted with her and then pulled her into his arms. The two began to have sex in public. The funniest thing Dina found was that she didn’t even see the man’s face clearly in her dream.

Carol L. Cummings, a dream analysis expert in Arizona, USA, said that this type of sexual dream reveals an open mind, indicating that you are looking forward to a new relationship and are enthusiastic about a new emotional life. "Not being able to see the man's face clearly" is a form of self-protection, indicating that one is still preparing for the arrival of a new relationship.

Dream 3: Dreaming about being intimate with the same sex

37-year-old nurse Jian Yin dreamed that she met a woman in a cafe. As she drank her coffee, the foam splashed over her mouth and the woman smiled and kissed her lips and neck. In reality, Jian Yin does not have any homosexual tendencies.

Dr. Spahr said that dreaming about having sex with the same sex does not mean that your sexual orientation has changed, but it just means that you expect to get more care and consideration in sex, and you want your partner to be more gentle. It also means that you expect to be understood by people of the same sex in life.

Dream 4: Dreaming about having sex with a celebrity

Cathy, 34, said that during the period when "Titanic" was popular, she dreamed many times about having crazy sex with the male lead Leonardo Dicaprio in broad daylight, and she did not stop even when her family found out.

People often have sexual dreams about celebrities, especially women. Dreaming about having sex with a celebrity actually means that you hope your significant other will have certain qualities that the celebrity embodies, such as bravery or romance. If she does not stop even when her family members appear in the dream, it means that she is very confident in sex.

Dream 5: Dreaming about sex in childhood home

39-year-old Mary dreamed that she had sex with a man in her mother's house, but she did not like the man and even felt disgusted with him. Many of her sexual dreams took place in her childhood home.

Dr. Holloway said that dreaming about your childhood home indicates that your current sexual outlook is greatly influenced by your family, and it also indicates that you want to return to the simpler life of your childhood. Dreaming about having sex with someone you hate indicates that you may have encountered some difficulties in reality that you have to face and you need to communicate with the people around you.

Dream 6: Dreaming of having an affair

31-year-old Liz has dreamed many times of having an affair with her husband's younger brother or good friend. In the dream, sex was very natural and Liz enjoyed it extremely. But such a straightforward and real sexual dream also made her feel "guilty of cheating."

Dr. Spahr says this kind of dream doesn't mean you want to cheat. Maybe your life is just too dull. If you have this dream repeatedly, it means that you are tired of some part of your marriage (not necessarily the sex life). At this time, you should take measures to rekindle the passion between husband and wife.

Dream 7: Dreaming of an old love rekindled

Stephanie, 37, is already a mother of two children. She often dreamed of having a passionate relationship with the tutor she had a crush on in college. The tutor's profound knowledge and connotation conquered her.

Dr. Cummings says that if we have a strong emotional connection with someone, we may dream about that person in a sexual dream. It is common to dream about an old love, and it may symbolize something that you are related to him or her. Stephanie dreamed of her mentor, which means that she missed the youth, freedom and desire for knowledge she had at that stage.

Dream 8: Dreaming about sex being interrupted

Katie, 39, dreamed about having sex with a man she liked, but it ended without her orgasming. She often had similar sexual dreams, with excellent foreplay, but always ending just when she was about to climax.

Dr. Cummings said that on the one hand this may indicate that Katie's sexual needs are not being met, and on the other hand, she is dissatisfied with her current life situation. If you often dream about sex being interrupted or being unable to climax, it may indicate a lack of trust in your lover or a certain fear of sexual intimacy.