Test your happiness index: what are the reasons that hinder your happiness?

Why do I often envy others for being so successful and happy, while I have to bear so much pressure and expectations? How can I achieve my own happiness? We often hear people talk about the law of attraction. If your mentality is often negative and discouraging, then your fortune will easily go downhill. Today I will help you find out what is preventing you from achieving happiness!

Test Start

A. A man looking into the distance

B. The girl and the man in the water

C. The girl holding a sword and a scale

D. Two men facing each other

Test analysis

Answer A: The man looking into the distance

What hinders your happiness is that you always live under the expectations and gazes of others. You rarely have truly independent attitudes and brave ideas. In many things, you always think about how to be safer, how to be less likely to fail, and how not to be laughed at by others. So that you become a bird living in an invisible cage. Although you know that the world is big, you dare not try, dare not explore, and even don’t want to discover yourself. It is recommended that you let go and do it. You have to walk your own path. Don’t back down before trying. Give yourself a chance, and you will find that you are better than you thought.

Answer B: The girl and the man in the water

What hinders your happiness is that your view on love is still stuck in the concept that holding hands and kissing means you should be together for a lifetime. But there are too many temptations in today's social environment. Many people are just looking for partners because they are lonely, and they just flirt with each other. You must have experienced such setbacks before, thinking that you can be cherished by the other party if you give your feelings, but the relationship is not recognized by the other party, and you are obsessed with each other's feelings and memories. It is recommended that you don't always live in the past. Life is looking forward. Please open your heart to accept the next relationship, and you will meet someone who is more suitable for you.

Answer C: The girl holding a sword and a scale

What hinders your happiness is that you always want to perform to the best of your ability and status, not only to become a trusted or respected person in the workplace, but also to be loved by your partner in marriage and in-laws' relationship. It's just that you often feel that you are not as good as others. Plus, there is a strong atmosphere of showing off and comparison in today's society. If you are not perfect enough, you are afraid that you will be looked down upon by your husband's family in the future. This prejudice against being well-matched makes you very tired. I suggest you don't compare yourself too much. Just compare yourself with yourself. If you have made progress compared to before, then you are the best version of yourself. After all, no one is perfect, so there is no need to demand 100% in everything.

Answer D: Two men facing each other

What hinders your happiness is that you are often almost suffocated by your suspicious, anxious, confrontational and unyielding personality. You know that this unhappy state of life will only make you very tired, but you just can't change the habit in your heart of wanting to push or step on others intentionally or unintentionally. Maybe you think it's just a prank between colleagues or friends, but it often makes the relationship worse. I suggest you relax your mind, look at the good side of others, and don’t be too fussy. Then you will live a more open and free life!